Did you get up out of bed today? Did you shower? Eat? Did you stop for gas or keep going? Did you buy that new lens? Did you book your trip to WPPI?
Decisions, decisions!!!
Our days are filled with them and so is our business. As a small business, we make tons of them, and when your business is as small as mine, EVERY decision counts, from stamps to trips to the Apple Store.
I have been thinking a lot about decisions lately. I think I am pretty good at choosing something, I normally hate having the pressure of a big decision hang over me so I find that I can rush things. But I am learning to be a little wiser in my days – after all, I have over 35 years of decision-making experience, I am becoming a decision yoda – slowly
If you are like me, sole proprietor, CEO/CFO/Designer/Photographer/Mail Clerk/Wearing all hats, you HAVE to make the decisions. It really all falls to you and on your capable shoulders
Jim Collins, the author of Good to Great and Built to Last says:
“No major decision we’ve studied was ever taken at a point of unanimous agreement” Jim Collins
He writes so much about decision making but this point really hit home with me. I tend to take some time to ask my “Brain Trust” their thoughts on certain decisions. For example, my “Brain Trust” is a group of people that are friends of mine that either run a business, are in sales, work as an engineer, deal with law and accounting. When I am considering a corporate career move, I reach out to JB and Sean. When it is a bigger business decision I bounce it off Jason and Brian.
“I make a decision, and if it’s wrong, I make another one.” Dave Ramsey
The key for me is to MAKE A DECISION, one way or the other, choose! Nothing happens without making a choice and I cannot progress.
No matter what though, if it is a substantial decision, I ALWAYS run it through the “Heather Filter”. There is something to be said about women’s intuition…
Accountability
Now to the fun part! I know, how fun can accountability be? On it’s own, it isn’t but the results and the process are for me!
It all started with an accountability partner. We’ve all heard this. “If you wanna go tot he gym and can’t seem to motivate your self and stay disciplined (you wuss!!!) get someone to commit to meet you there…” Peer pressure STILL works!
Well, for this, it’s a little different. It is still based on having a partner but there is, or should be, less sweat and dehydration
I meek weekly with a trusted friend and we have a simple, hyper-focused, hour together. We meet for a breakfast and spend the time going over our projects and milestones. There are 2 keys to making this work for us:
- It is simple
- Be a supportive challenge
- We make bets
We have to keep ourselves from getting in our own way so we ALWAYS make sure to keep it simple. If we overcomplicate it, we would end up not doing anything! Know what I mean?
Out of LOVE, we challenge each other… we make sure that the other is adequately aligning their milestones with the project and we give a little push.
On top of that, we make bets… EACH of our milestones have a dollar amount tied to them and their completion. If I do not complete a milestone by the due date, physically hand money across the table! Talk about a motivator! We even challenge the amount of the bet so that we are motivated to accomplish the most important milestones over the lesser ones.
Over the past few months (since November), this process has helped me out a lot!
I could write a TON about both of these topics I think. Maybe soon, I will break them down a little more, but for now, that’s all I got! Plus, Grace is up now and the sounds of Marry Poppins’ “Just a Spoonful of Sugar” is pulling me out into what I am sure is a cute scene in the living room!
Take care, have a great day and thanks for deciding to read this post